Courtroom Behavior Expectations

Physical Behavior

• Stand when the judge enters and exits. The bailiff will announce it. Everyone stands. Do not be the person who stays seated.
• No chewing gum, no food, no drinks. Not even water in most courtrooms. If you need water, ask the bailiff.
• Keep your hands visible and sit still. Fidgeting, crossing arms, and leaning back all communicate something — usually not what you want.
• Empty your pockets before the metal detector. Keys, coins, belt — have them ready. Lines are long and delays get noticed.

How to Address the Court

Two phrases cover almost every situation:

• “Yes, Your Honor.”
• “No, Your Honor.”

Do not explain. Do not argue. Do not volunteer information. If the judge asks you a question that requires more than yes or no, answer briefly and directly. Your attorney handles the rest.

Technology

• Turn your phone completely off. Not silent. Off. A ringing phone in court is contempt-level disrespect in some courtrooms.
• No recording of any kind — audio, video, or photos.
• No texting, even if the phone is on silent.
• Some courtrooms prohibit phones entirely. Check before you arrive or leave it in the car.

Emotional Control

This one is harder than it sounds. You may hear things about yourself that are inaccurate, unfair, or infuriating. Do not react.

• Do not shake your head when someone is speaking.
• Do not sigh, roll your eyes, or make faces.
• Do not whisper loudly to your attorney during testimony.
• Genuine emotion — tears, a quiet moment of composure — is human and judges understand that. Performative displays are spotted immediately.

Rules for Family and Supporters in the Gallery

Everyone who comes to support you is held to the same standard. Make sure they know:

• Do not react to testimony or rulings — no gasps, no head-shaking, no outbursts.
• Do not talk during proceedings.
• Same dress code and technology rules apply.
• Their presence is noticed and it matters. A courtroom full of quiet, respectful supporters communicates something powerful about the defendant.